{"id":580,"date":"2017-08-20T22:19:38","date_gmt":"2017-08-21T02:19:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mujerdevision.com\/DeMujeraMujer\/?p=580"},"modified":"2017-09-28T20:28:48","modified_gmt":"2017-09-29T00:28:48","slug":"cuidar-o-facilitar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/mujerdevision.com\/vision\/cuidar-o-facilitar\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00bfCuidar o Facilitar?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-581\" src=\"http:\/\/mujerdevision.com\/DeMujeraMujer\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/stress2.jpg\" alt=\"kids with stress\" width=\"339\" height=\"254\" \/>Las personas sensibles pueden, sin pensarlo, convertirse en parte del problema antes que en la soluci\u00f3n antes de arreglar las cosas.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">La entereza y los sentimientos de valoraci\u00f3n personal se logran controlando nuestra propia vida. Y esto incluye encontrar soluciones a los problemas personales. Si un miembro de la familia asume la responsabilidad de solucionar los problemas del otro, se transforma en facilitador, rob\u00e1ndole la satisfacci\u00f3n de tomar sus propias decisiones.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a1Facilitar no es amar! Puede parecer un acto generoso allanar el camino de un hijo, esposo, o padre tambaleantes. Pero al quitarle la responsabilidad de tomar decisiones pierde el sentido de competencia, de satisfacci\u00f3n y autoestima. Nuestras acciones son las que proveen la motivaci\u00f3n para el cambio.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Satisfacer las necesidades ps\u00edquicas de otra persona significa escuchar; animar, consolar y confrontar con amor. Este apoyo sol\u00edcito es un trampol\u00edn que le permite tomar las decisiones que debe tomar. A pesar de las consecuencias, el trampol\u00edn siempre estar\u00e1 all\u00ed. No salte por otro; no le quite la responsabilidad de tomar decisiones; no controle; no lo ayude a tomar un camino autodestructivo.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Una familia saludable siempre estar\u00e1 para cuidar, para respetar, aceptar, perdonar y confiar; para ser trampol\u00edn de lanzamiento. Eso es lo que todos necesitamos de los dem\u00e1s.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Kay Kuzma, Crear Amor, 75,76<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Satisfacer las necesidades ps\u00edquicas de otra persona significa escuchar; animar, consolar<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[1140],"tags":[170,420,1234],"class_list":["post-580","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-en-familia","tag-aceptar","tag-decisiones","tag-facilitar","et-doesnt-have-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v26.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>\u00bfCuidar o Facilitar? - Mujer de Vision<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"http:\/\/mujerdevision.com\/vision\/cuidar-o-facilitar\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"\u00bfCuidar o Facilitar? 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